otherwise known as living a creative life with fear and anxiety
Things have been quiet on the blog front for quite some time, ironic because when it was called quiet in the grasp I could never seem to shut up. But then a funny thing happened–I started putting all this pressure on myself to live a life I’d always planned.
I’m pretty sure we all hit 25 or 30 (or whatever big milestone freaks you out) and realize that life is more complicated, more out of control than you ever anticipated. I had no way of knowing that the magazines I was planning to edit would be a very elite business by the time I graduated, and I had no way of knowing how much continued rejection would beat me down and make me doubt my own creative ideas. I had no control over the terrible economy or the awful politics or how either of those things would effect my every day life and dreams.
Stability is something I have always searched for, but I am hopeless about finding it or keeping it. In fact, if things aren’t changing on a fairly regular basis, I get massive anxiety attacks and fear that everything in my life will be exactly the same forever.
So, I’m trying to get back to some of my roots. I want to remember what used to wake me up early in the morning to jot down notes for a novel idea or why I used to stay up late singing a new song. I have been writing stories since I was about 12, singing since I was 5, and yet now that I have spent most of my life loving these things they are somehow getting more difficult, filled with more pressure and expectations.
In an effort to get back some of the me I miss, I am going to start writing here more often, maybe make an occasional video. I am going to sing and write more, without the pressure of knowing if those efforts will ever see the light the day. I am going to make plans for creative projects, set deadlines, but not necessarily make any grand, ambitious plans.
I hope you’ll be along for the ride, or at the very least, I hope that you remember what it is that makes you feel like you. Keep it, or fight to get it back.
P.S. I know the title of this blog post makes very little sense, but trust me when I tell you that cookies, my friend Jenna, weird dreams about werewolves, and the ever-wonderful Mudha are a big part in me trying to get past this fear of creativity. Also, I just finished reading Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, and so I’ve been thinking about this for awhile now.